Girlfriend insists on going hiking in skirt and heels

One of the most common issues nowadays is gaslighting, and it can happen in a romantic relationship or even between friends. As this Redditor points out, it checks: she manipulated him into doubting his own perceptions, which is an unhealthy way to live with someone you’re supposed to share your life with. That’s why he was concerned and went on Reddit to find out if he was the problem or if she simply sees things differently.

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It’s weird if, in your 30s and already with a partner, you don’t want to be comfortable, suitable, and dressed appropriately for hiking or exercising.


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It’s horrible when you see someone struggling physically just because they picked the wrong clothes and won’t admit it. It’s meant to be outdoor exercise with a nice view, not a fashion show in Milan.


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That’s definitely not the type of attention she wants.


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Perhaps she’s just trying to impress the trees and wildlife around her…


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It’s a normal feeling, and it’s fine to remind, not to push. Sometimes the best choice might be to skip the hikes altogether.


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At the end of the day, she’s 30 and free to make her own choices. The problem is that she’s the type who hates losing, even over something small, and won’t admit when she’s wrong.


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